Online Dating
Online acquaintances on love relationships have become more widely accepted in recent years. If you are interested in searching for a partner on the Internet, this guide will help you at how you can make use of the dating pages, the difficulties you may encounter, and the precautions you can take.
Looking for love through a click is a complicated story as …
1) Online appointments are still stigmatized …
Online Dating can be a trusted way to get to know each other, but until you catch the “Jackpot of Love”, it’s always the last thing you think , because it’s still a taboo, and you do not even want to share it with your friends or your family, as you know that thet will propably judge you.
2) … but all of them do
At 30, when someone tells you that he was dating, he is most likely to have arranged it through the internet.
3) Many choices make it difficult to choose…
The wide variety of Dating sites and apps does not necessarily makes it easier. I know a lot of people who had enough choices to have a date. At first, perhaps there was little enthusiasm, but after a few days it faded. Getting to know people is one thing, but getting to know them better is the most complicated.
4) It is a reliable way to meet interesting people..
By going out on a date with a new person (you have closed through the internet), you are given the opportunity to ask him many personal questions. This way you can hear very strange and extremely interesting stories from strange people with whom eventually may not fall in love, but you certainly would not have heard through the traditional method.
5) To fall in love requires you to be vulnerable
Online Dating may have solved many aspects of romance but still has not solved the most important of all: emotional intimacy still wants work.
6) The guys who do not like you online, they would not be better from close
7) Timing always plays a role…
In theory, it is reasonable to assume that it is easy to make an internet connection, just as the other wants exactly the same thing. In fact, however, love attraction does not arrive, because – in order to achieve this – you should both want the same thing at the same time.
How does the online dating work?
The logic of specialized web sites for dating is simple: people who are interested in a new relationship make their free registration on a page like badoo.com and create a personal profile.
From then on, they can search for other users based on specific features – gender, age, interests, place of residence, etc. At the same time, their own profile is available in other users’ searches.
If a person’s profile engages our interest, or someone is interested in our own profile, we can communicate to get to know each other better, meet, and, as they say, whatever happens, happens..
Some people see pages of this type as negative, like an e-shop for people that degrades people on the few lines and a few photos of a profile.
They place web dating sites on a similar level to looking for dating ads in the newspaper, putting at the same time an ad.
But the truth is that if we do not have the time, the energy, or even the ease of getting to know new people, the internet dating sites greatly facilitate the process of identifying people who attract us with similar interests.
And, of course, a profile with photos detailing the interests of a person is much better at the level of information than an ad.
Internet acquaintances are only for the ugly / unbalanced / desperate;
Whether we like it or not, knowing new people is something that takes time and energy ,something that not eveyone has plenty , irrespective of their appearance or character.
In addition, features such as appearance, intelligence, and good character are not necessarily associated with sociability. Knowing new people, as adults ,wants a special kind of courage. If we do not have this courage or we are shy, the difficulty of approach can be agonizing. And this does not apply only for a relationship, but even if we want to meet new friends.
Are there repellents, bruises, or even imbalances in the internet dating sites?
Of course they exist, just like anywhere else. But there is no indication that they are more concetrated than the “offline” world, the beach, the bar, the cafeteria, or a party. Plus, it’s easier on the Internet to ignore them, as each website for online dating, or for social communication in general, provides us with some sort of blocking option.
What are the difficulties of getting acquainted with the internet?
For people who are not very social, internet acquaintances look like a manna from heaven.
The truth is, however, that the world of online dating is not always handsome, good and angelic, and perhaps what we find in it is not exactly what we expected.
How do we understand what counts for us?
Since we have referred to the strict criteria, oversupply gives us the “permission” to be in the favor of being selective. After all, in a way we have to limit our choices.
Supports Apollo Kalamaria; Delete. Play Candy Crash Saga? Delete. Did he like the Hobbit more than the Lord? Delete. He jumped in front of a train to save a child on the rails but wrote the train with “ah”; Delete.
What if one of the above disapproved users proved to be excellent in cooking? If he/she can relax and calm us when we are stressed? If she/he were an amazing parent if we were to have children in the future with him/her?
Unfortunately, usually the most important elements in a person’s character can not be described exactly in words, let alone in a written profile full of preferences that are more or less indifferent to a relationship.
Let’s make sure we want the same thing
On the internet dating site some are looking for a simple relationship, some are looking for marriage and children and some just for sex without any commitment.
Whatever the reason we have created a profile is legitimate. What is important, however, are the people we approach to want the same thing with us.
In other words, if two people get in touch and one person is just interested in sex, while the other wants to be restored, one of them will be hurt.
And, of course, be careful not to fall on someone who tells you what you want to hear, say about relationship and marriage, but has done the same to five other users this month, and will do it to another 5 next.
Protection through anonymity
It is good however, both in our username and in our profile in general, not to reveal our true identity or our contact information. Also, our initial conversations with someone, keep them at the level of your first name.
The reason is not for us not to find the killer with the saw( just kidding) . But we do not want to fall on anybody who gets us on the phone at 3 o’clock, or start killing us and all our friends on Facebook with messages.
Yes, people so dysfunctional are usually exceptions to the set. But until we are sure, it does not hurt to be careful. At least, in Online Dating, we have the opportunity to see signs of such behavior before we give our full details.
Many resist the trend of online dating and have their reasons.
Some indicate a safety deficit (according to the Pew Research Center, 1/4 of Americans are harassed online). 25% of young people aged 18-34 in Europe (again according to the Pew Research Center) find desperate people looking for a partner via the internet, which is confirmed by 16% of people registered in such applications and claiming desperately for the development of their personal lives.
The effect of this whole wave of digital intimacy may show us a lot about the way we perceive the relationship (some perceive online dating as the prescribed end of monogamy). It may also reflect the depreciation of a choice made by the plethora of prospective comrades. Surely, online dating remains a social experiment in which one can not find his mate but he still has nothing to lose.
One last thing :
Do not forget to look around and not just on your cell phone
There is also the other side. In the winter, when I went to the gym, I had the opportunity to meet a guy with whom we were flirting every time we were. That would not have happened if I did not look every so often and what is happening around me. That is why we should always keep our eyes open, not just on websites or applications.